How Do I Make Her Want Me Again? 

If your mind keeps playing the question “How do I make her want me again?”, you are probably sore and regretful after your break up and is in a shock state. 

Okay, breakups are not predictable, but is possible in all relationships. If you keep pondering and whining to your friends going “How do I make her want me again?”, you are not going to get anywhere because it needs action. 

In order to take an action instead of only asking “How do I make her want me again?”, you need a proper plan. Yes, it may sound too business-like but planning is essential before an action. 

Besides, if you are really serious about it, you will make sure that everything goes as planned in order to win your ex back.  This is part of the essential things to do to get your ex girlfriend back.

Firstly, you need to push aside your ego and pride to make the first move. Making the first move is tricky as your action may be responded with a rejection from your ex. But, you must keep in mind that if you manage to get your ex to listen and talk to you on the first move, then you already win half the battle to execute the following actions you have planned to win her back. 

Be upfront and straight forward. Do not do those cheesy things like sending gifts anonymously, text messages and stalking her. She will become annoyed and thinks that you are sneaky and disrespecting her space. 

The straight forward way will be to call her and apologize. Make it brief, and then give her space. In time, your message will slowly sink in to her instead of driving her away with all those subtle and useless techniques.  You should respect her decision if your girlfriend says she needs time to be alone and not be disturbed.

After some time, contact her again. Like in business, it is the same as following up with your client to ensure that their existence is valued. To her, it will be a gentle reminder that you still miss her. Then again, this is tricky because you need to keep your cool and not go into tears, sobs and wailing as it is a sign of weakness, which means a turn-off. 

Which girl will not run away when they see the guy who needs them is so vulnerable and cannot stand on his own? It makes them think twice about whether the guy is able to protect them. 

Just remind her and keep it brief like the first call to her. As you know, it is true that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Contacting her but limiting the time will make her think more of you. The more she thinks of you, the more she will realise how different life is without you. 

She will remember the good memories with you and this will veer her to appreciate your relationship more. You need to give her more than the space she needed. Show that you are strong and always be there for her if she decides to come back to you. 

So, if you really want to get back the woman you love, do not sit there and only think of “How do I make her want me again?”. Go and take action before your opportunity runs away!